Friday, March 23, 2012

Meet the Jolly Family

In case you missed it, we're hosting a fabulous giveaway this week to help the Jolly family of Olive Branch, Mississippi, adopt Albina, an orphan with Down syndrome on Reece's Rainbow. 

I still remember crying tears of joy after receiving this email from Jonana when they made the decision to commit to Albina's adoption back in June...

I wanted to let you know where we stand.  One day last week, probably the same day or the day before that I originally emailed you, I had emailed the adoption agency that handles the region that Albina is in with some questions.  I think I may have even told you about that.  In addition to sending me a lot of information, she also sent me some questions (ages, income, family size, religious affiliation, etc) so that she could pre-approve us before we sent in an actual application.   Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that tonight I emailed her the answers to those questions and told her that we were ready to start the pre-approval process that is necessary before we can commit to Albina!  I am so excited I can't stand it.  I  have loved on this baby for what seems like a long time but it really  hasn't been that long in the grand scheme of things.  Thank you for advocating for her!!  
Provided the Lord continues to open the doors that we feel He's opening, she's going to have a big brother named Matthew who is 10 and a big sister named Gracie who is going to be 5 in about a month.  She's going to live in Mississippi and have a sweet southern accent and learn about Jesus and go to church and have a Christmas stocking and birthday cakes with her name on them and learn how to say "Go Dawgs" at Mississippi State football games. (I just thought you would like to know....)

 I asked Jonana to share their family's journey to commit to Albina - I love to see how God moves on hearts for orphans, and I am so blessed to be a very small part of that. If you gave last year to our "What If?" giveaway for Albina, you are a part of this rescue today....

The Jolly Family

We have been asked so many times how we came to the decision to adopt Albina.  The very first step came when a little boy named Kirill was denied a family by a judge in Eastern Europe simply because he has Down syndrome.  God used that to break my heart.  I knew what Reece’s Rainbow was and would go out to their website occasionally but just never thought that was what we were going to do.  But then once Kirill was denied, I began to not only pray for his family and their appeal (which thankfully was successful and he’s home safe and sound with his mama, daddy and brother now) but also to follow other blogs of families who had adopted or were in the process of adopting children with Down syndrome from half way around the world.  A part of the world where if you aren’t “perfect” you don’t really have a place in society.  

Albina, baby picture

One  night after reading and crying over so many of these children, I remember saying to myself, “We need to do this.”  I know they were my words but I really, really feel that was God speaking to my heart.  Opening my eyes to something that hadn’t even been on our radar.  I knew that I wanted to adopt a child with Down syndrome from Eastern Europe.  A child listed on Reece’s Rainbow.  After thinking about it for a few days I mentioned it to my husband. 

Let’s just say, he wasn’t on the same page as I was.  I have to clarify that my husband, Brad, is a wonderful, loving husband and father.  He loves the Lord with all of his heart.  So, he didn’t answer with a hateful or uncaring heart.  It just wasn’t something that he thought was right for our family.  At that point, I purposed in my heart that I was not going to nag him.  I would take any opportunity to talk to him about this that came up naturally but I wasn’t going to nag him.  God was so faithful and allowed conversations and situations to come up, allowed opportunities to talk about these children and about Down syndrome not only with Brad but with our two kids.  We are a homeschooling family so talking to a 10 year old and a 5 year old about Down syndrome or how other parts of the world view people who aren’t “perfect” fit right in.  (I’m a big talker and explainer.  I love to explain and teach things verbally to my kids.)  

I look back now and I’m just amazed at how God opened those doors to talk with my husband and my family about this.  They came to know how burdened my heart was about it. So, God was planting seeds in my husband’s heart.  Little tiny seeds but seeds.

During this whole process, I did finally just point blank tell Brad that I felt like God was telling us to pray about it, just pray about it and be open to what He told us.  Brad agreed because he always strives to do what God wants him to do so he was certainly open to praying about something that I felt so strongly about.  

I assumed that if Brad decided that we should adopt then we would look and pray over the children on Reece’s Rainbow to decide who we should adopt.  Well, God had another plan.  I remember how I would look and look over these children.  Wondering is that him, is that her?  But then one day I saw a face.  It was a face that I had seen a lot but this particular day it was God’s timing to reveal the next step in this process.  I saw Albina’s face, I looked at it, and I just knew.  I KNEW that was her.  

From that point on, I never could go long without pulling her picture up.  I remember talking to my iPad (sad, but true) and telling her, “We’re coming.  Hold on, we’re coming.”  I kept her picture minimized on every electronic device I had.  She was just always there.  I couldn’t quit looking at her.  She was mine and I had to get to her.  (I remember being devastated one day when I read Patti’s blog and it sounded like she already had a family.  I was happy for her but absolutely heartbroken.)  

One night, I just held my iPad up to Brad and said, “Look, isn’t she sweet?” He took the iPad from me and looked at her and made a few little comments about her.  Well, I found out later that was all she wrote for Brad Jolly.  A few days later, he just sort of casually asked me, “How do I get back to that page with that little girl on it?”  He told me later that while he had been praying about this like I had asked him to do he started to sense that God was telling him, “Don’t turn your back on her.  Don’t leave her there.”  He also told me later how he would pull her picture up at work and pray over her and this whole process. We started to have conversations about how much this process would cost, how it would change our family, all of the conversations that you have to have. Then the day finally came that he said, “I just feel like she’s supposed to be ours.” and we committed to bring our Albina home. Since then we have prayed over her, we have worked and worked to fundraise and to get paperwork ready. 

 We had a less that good experience with our original homestudy agency which cost us some precious months but we are holding on to the fact that God is in control of all time and He is working all of this out for good…even those lost months.

We love Albina.  We talk about how it’s strange that you can love somebody you’ve never met.  We pray over her that she’s safe and that we can bring her home just as quickly as possible.  We want her to be here with her brother and sister and to know that she’s loved and valued and that we think she’s perfect, just the way God made her.


Will you help the Jolly family go rescue their girl?

Will you help me get them fully funded?

How about some amazing prizes as incentive???


1) NEW Apple iPad 16GB Wifi Tablet  ***NEWEST MODEL JUST

• New Retina display for the sharpest text and graphics display
• New A5X high-speed processor
• 16GB storage
• Wi-fi connectivity
• 10 hours battery life with Wi-fi turned on
• 5MP camera built-in
• HD quality video recording
• Facetime (video chat)
• Support for thousands of apps in iTunes App Store

2) Canon EOS Rebel T3 12.2 MP CMOS Digital SLR with 18- 55mm IS II Lens
   • 12.2 Megapixel CMOS (APS-C) sensor and DIGIC 4 Image Processor for
high image quality and speed.
• ISO 100 - 6400 for shooting from bright to dim light.
• Improved EOS HD Movie mode with expanded recording [HD: 30p (29.97)
/ 25p], and with in-camera movie editing options.
• High speed, reliable 9-point AF system utilizing a high precision, f/5.6
cross-type center point.
• Enhanced metering with a 63-zone, Dual-layer metering system for
accurate metering between exposures.
• 3.0 fps continuous shooting up to approximately 830 JPEGs or 2.0 fps for
approximately 5 RAW.
• 2.7-inch wide TFT LCD monitor (230,000 dots) with Live View function for
improved viewing.
• Express your creativity with ease using advanced imaging features like the
new Basic+ function, Quick Setting function and Creative Auto.
• New Feature Guide offers short descriptions of each function and Quick
Control screen for easy operation.
• Compatibility with SD/SDHC/SDXC memory cards.
• Compatible with the full line of Canon EF and EF-S lenses.


3) $500 Gift Card

And a host of other wonderful prizes....

$100 gift card to Target !!!
(thank you, Kelly Dirkes !!)

Sock Monkey Hat (winner chooses size) from The3MonkeysBoutique on Etsy. Crocheted sock monkey hat. specify color- sock monkey brown/gray, pink, blue, purple, orange.

Hot/cold packs from June 34 on Etsy Heat in the microwave to soothe sore muscles or warm up during cold night. Place in the freezer for a cold pack... great for boo-boo's for little ones!

  Highly Fragrant Soy Candle in 8 oz. tin container by JubileeScents on Etsy - Sugar Cookie and Pomegranate (one of each) Approximate 40 hours burn time - Made in USA 

Tutu- Made in any size and any color for the winner - Can also choose short or long skirt.

 Vera Bradley inspired flameless LED candles - Choose any of the styles shown - Winner receives 2 candles

Ten bows (winner's choice) from Natasha's Hair Bowtique and one bow holder:

(bows hang from tutu ribbons)

Darling Pink tutu, size 6 months

Baby Bluebird hat made with love by Sarah and Rachel at Handiwork for Lilly

Two necklaces (one per winner) from Mattie Grace Gifts on Etsy.

and finally, the GRAND PRIZE.....

Oh yeah, baby!
Renee Tam's world famous toffee. I don't think there is a price you could put on this stuff. For reals.

There are MANY ways to enter this giveaway. Leave a comment saying what you did to be entered (donated, shared, etc.) You do not have to specify your donation amount- paypal keeps track of these, and Jonana will total your entries.

*donate to the Jolly Family via the paypal gadget on my sidebar

$10 = one entry
$25 = 5 entries
$50 = 20 entries

*one entry PER DAY for sharing the giveaway on FB (status must be updated each day for each entry)

*one entry PER DAY for blogging about the giveaway (please include your blog link in your comment.)

*my wonderful friend, Deanna is co-hosting this giveaway with me. Become a follower of Everything and Nothing From Essex and leave a comment (there) saying you did so for an extra entry.

*twenty entries for getting this giveaway talked about on a radio station. It's never happened yet, but hey, it's worth a try ;)

Our goal is $18,500. I realize that's huge. But I just watched God work a $17,000 miracle for Charlotte last month, and I'm just crazy enough to pray He'll do it again.

Giveaway ends March 30th, and winners will be drawn and announced on March 31st.

Ten days to watch a miracle happen.

Will you help us Save Albina ????


Anonymous said...

I really enjoy your blog. I donated to Albina's fund.
Lynne, South GA

Micah said...

I posted Albina's giveaway- Meet the Jollys link on facebook tonight.

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